Being single can feel difficult or tiring but that’s not how it should be. It should be a blessing (especially if you’re still young) because it is a great opportunity to enjoy life at its fullest, to discover yourself, to visit the most beautiful places with your friends and so on.
You should be enjoying every second of it instead of solely focusing yourself with what you are missing. If you’re constantly thinking about your ex or someone with whom you would want to be (but for some reason, you aren’t), if you’re constantly anticipating meeting the right one, you’re not doing it right.
Breathe in – breathe out – press the pause button – stop chasing love.
There’s no point in tiring yourself over something that happened, something that should have happened, or something that should happen. Enjoy. Now. Let go of your past. Don’t think about the future. Live in the present.
There’s no point in chasing love. Love will find you when you stop chasing it. Period. So, every time you find yourself worrying about your love life or dwelling on your past, replace all of the negativity with positivity. Think only about the present because that is the only way to your ultimate happiness. It is the only thing you can influence.
When you decide to stop chasing love and to choose happiness, these 5 things will happen
1. You’ll become free
When you’re constantly expecting and waiting for something to happen, you are draining yourself of positive energy because you are investing your thoughts in the wrong things. When you stop chasing love, you’ll ultimately become free.
You will no longer feel like a prisoner of your own mind because you will be busy enjoying the present. You will be busy occupying yourself with the most exciting things you’ve always wanted to try. Your spirit will be rejuvenated and you’ll ooze with happiness.
2. You’ll enjoy going out again
You’ll find another meaning to going out. You will no longer dress yourself to impress some attractive guy or your possible soulmate. Going out will no longer feel like something you ought to do or not because you want to.
When you stop chasing love, you’ll discover the charms of going out again. You will absorb beautiful music, the environment, and the energy of your awesome friends which will make you feel AWESOME. When you stop focusing on meeting the one, you’ll discover that there is so much you’ve been missing all this time.
3. Your friendship bonds will get stronger
Sometimes, girl friendships turn into babbling about men, dissatisfaction about your love life and similar because when you’re constantly focused on one thing like chasing the love of your life, you become blind when it comes to your people. When you only think about one thing, your topics narrow and you stop enjoying the time you spend together.
When you release your mind of everything that has something to do with love, your friendship bonds will get stronger. You will discover new ways of having fun and enjoying moments like never before. Your future adventures will get you closer to each other and you’ll have the time of your life.
4. You’ll discover your full potential
When you stop chasing love, you’ll discover your full potential. You’ll discover new hobbies, activities, new sides of your personalities, new quirks and flaws. You’ll discover yourself.
And there’s nothing more satisfying than being in touch with your true self. You’ll discover that you’re not as weak as you might have thought. You’ll discover that you’re talented in something you’d never thought of doing. You’ll discover your independence and you will enjoy spending time with yourself.
5. You’ll ultimately become more attractive
When you start practicing all of these things above, you’ll ultimately become more attractive. You’ll become the woman that every guy dreams of having in his life. And best of all, when you start living your best life, you will start attracting greatness.
So, breathe in – breathe out – press the pause button and stop chasing love. Enjoy the moment, enjoy the time spent with your friends, enjoy discovering yourself. Learn to love life and life will love you in return. Learn to stop chasing love and love will find you.