Defining love is one of the most complex things there is. Even when we are in love with someone, we tend not to be able to define whether what we feel is passion, a sense of happiness and well-being, well-being, affection or really true love.
Neither scientists nor poets can faithfully translate what love means. However, we know that loving is being yourself, respecting the space of others and living an enriching partnership. Love is a feeling of calm and far from the highs and lows of a rapturous passion. For this very reason, he is so wanted by those who want stability in life.
If you are in doubt whether your relationship is based on love or some other feeling, we will help you. We list 15 facts that true love brings to your life. Check it out and try to recognize yourself in these situations.
But here’s a warning: if you identify situations that are contrary to those listed, be aware, it may be time to change your way of acting or even to leave a toxic relationship that nothing good will bring you.
1- No victimization and no blame partner
True love has no room for guilt and for the victim. When the feeling is solid, at the time of the fights or as soon as the calms calm down, the couple tends to rethink their actions and assume their mistakes, without playing on the other the weight of the misunderstanding.
2- Without exacerbated jealousy
Who loves, cares. This is a fact. But if this care turns into a wave of exaggerated jealousy and without foundation, I already warn that it is not love. True love trusts and knows that having toxic feelings like jealousy will only ruin the relationship.
3- Without unfounded expectations
To love is to understand that your partner is different from you. He probably has very different thoughts and actions from yours, and for this very reason you should not create expectations that he would react to a certain thing in the same way that you would. If you want something or expect something, make it clear. Creating expectations only creates frustration.
4. Do not let fear interfere with the relationship
Fear is one of the meanest feelings that can exist. It frustrates, paralyzes, and creates unreal situations. Love usually walks well away from fear, and when a spark shows up it is soon erased by the partner who reassures you.
5. True love liberates
Love does not suffocate, it lets go. Lovers need freedom, space, and situations where they are away from the loved one. But love will always make you come back.
6- Living in partnership, with equal rights
Selfishness and egocentricity are two things that must go very far from love. Being in a relationship based on love is knowing that you are building a partnership and always understanding the needs of the loved one.
7- Wanting it much more than you need it
To love is to want to be together and not need to be together. The willing comes from free and spontaneous action, the precise denotes an obligation. The one who loves stays with the other to fulfill his will. That simple.
8- No obligations
Yet in the reasoning of the above topic, true love is sometimes simply not compatible. Loving someone does not mean that you should live together, it may not be the right time. Know that loving is also having the maturity to end a relationship, if need be.
9- Give constant attention
To know how to love someone is to know that you have someone else waiting for your attention and do everything you deserve. This is true throughout the relationship, because true love requires maintenance and the game is never fully won.
10- Be aware that feeling alone is nothing
In practice, love is just a word that in itself does not mean much. Love must be in every affection, every look and every word exchanged. To please is to love.
11- Brings benefits and sense of well-being
Love will never hurt you. Do not try to live a love of those of cinema and fairy tale with many adversities, struggles and in waiting for the happy ending. In real life, love will bring you a whole story of well-being and happiness.
12- Emotional vibration
Science proves: love vibrates in waves of calm. If you seek a life full of ups and downs, true love will always be far away. Loving brings stability.
13- It is unconditional
It is the most difficult characteristic of true love, and in this case they say that only maternal love is passible. Loving someone unconditionally is the purest feeling.
14- Accepts the differences
Learning from your partner is loving. Learning that there is no right and wrong, only different points of view.
15- Have empathy
True love always stands in the place of the other. Forcing yourself to see situations from your partner’s vision is a great way to create harmony.